Fix Your Relationships with Dr. Tiff | Dating, Self-Sabotage, Red Flags, People Pleasing, Love Bombing
***TOP 10% GLOBALLY RANKED PODCAST***
Are you a high-achieving baddie who hasn’t found success in your romantic relationships? Do you keep falling for the wrong type while missing obvious red-flags? Do you over-function in relationships, to the point that you neglect yourself? Or, are you a people pleaser who constantly feels taken advantage of? Have you stayed in relationships way longer than you should? Does the thought of trying to fix it all leave you feeling like giving up on relationships all together?
If you’re ready to stop losing yourself in relationships and start doing the “self-work” that you’ve been putting off, then babes, you’re in the right place. This podcast will help you stop the self-sabotage, own your mistakes and nurture you through the changes you know you need to make in order to call in the love you desire and deserve.
Hey Babes. I’m Dr. Tiff. A licensed psychotherapist and relationship coach, wife, momma of one and lover of God, hip hop and my nightly glass of wine. For the past 20+ years, I’ve been helping high-achieving women, just like you, find the love and the life that they desperately desire and deserve. Some married. Some single. All baddies in their respective businesses. Yet, nearly all had one thing in common: They all needed to confront patterns and habits that have kept them stuck and blocked them from finding “the one.” Their hearts were ready for love but self-sabotage, ignoring red flags, co-dependency and the avoidance of self-work was keeping them (and you) from attracting the love of their lives.
What I know for sure is that your over-compensation for what your partner lacks, your self-neglect and your lack of boundaries won’t net you the partner you’ve been dreaming of. It’s not until you confront those old patterns of people-pleasing, staying in dead-end relationships & holding onto past hurt, that we become more open to new strategies that will actually help us fix what’s broken; within ourselves and our relationships.
When I began leading my clients through this process, a major shift happened in their romantic lives. The moment they began to focus on their own growth and transformation, the love that they desired started showing up for them in ways they were finally ready to embrace. By working on the only person you can change (YOU), and resisting the urge to focus on what’s beyond your control, my clients are finding that chasing after, hoping for or trying to strong-arm someone into being “the one,” just isn’t worth it. Rather than looking for “the one,” I help them BECOME THE ONE.
If you’re ready to get your love life together with a little help from a God-fearing, wine guzzling baddie, who’ll hold you accountable and make you laugh every step of the way - this podcast is for you! So go ahead, babes. It's time to kick off your Loubs, un-bra your boobs and clink glasses with your girl. Get ready to Fix Your Relationships.
Let's Keep In Touch! - Have a relationship question or an idea for the show? Interested in being a guest on our podcast or hiring Dr. Tiff to appear on yours? Email us at support@DrTiffanieHenry.com or visit https://DrTiffanieHenry.com for more information.
We're growing & so are you. So, we might as well grow together, Babes!! We've just launched our Facebook Community and we'd love for you to join us. Visit www.FYRCommunity.com, answer a few simple questions (so we know you're not a bot 🤖), and you're in!
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Interested in connecting on a deeper level? Join the Become The ONE community: a safe-space for like-mined women, all learning how to call-in the love and life they deserve while focusing on their own growth and transformation. If you KNOW you’ve got some work to do and are ready to face your relationship missteps, you’re ready to Become The ONE. Visit https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist and sign up today.
***TOP 10% GLOBALLY RANKED PODCAST***
Are you a high-achieving baddie who hasn’t found success in your romantic relationships? Do you keep falling for the wrong type while missing obvious red-flags? Do you over-function in relationships, to the point that you neglect yourself? Or, are you a people pleaser who constantly feels taken advantage of? Have you stayed in relationships way longer than you should? Does the thought of trying to fix it all leave you feeling like giving up on relationships all together?
If you’re ready to stop losing yourself in relationships and start doing the “self-work” that you’ve been putting off, then babes, you’re in the right place. This podcast will help you stop the self-sabotage, own your mistakes and nurture you through the changes you know you need to make in order to call in the love you desire and deserve.
Hey Babes. I’m Dr. Tiff. A licensed psychotherapist and relationship coach, wife, momma of one and lover of God, hip hop and my nightly glass of wine. For the past 20+ years, I’ve been helping high-achieving women, just like you, find the love and the life that they desperately desire and deserve. Some married. Some single. All baddies in their respective businesses. Yet, nearly all had one thing in common: They all needed to confront patterns and habits that have kept them stuck and blocked them from finding “the one.” Their hearts were ready for love but self-sabotage, ignoring red flags, co-dependency and the avoidance of self-work was keeping them (and you) from attracting the love of their lives.
What I know for sure is that your over-compensation for what your partner lacks, your self-neglect and your lack of boundaries won’t net you the partner you’ve been dreaming of. It’s not until you confront those old patterns of people-pleasing, staying in dead-end relationships & holding onto past hurt, that we become more open to new strategies that will actually help us fix what’s broken; within ourselves and our relationships.
When I began leading my clients through this process, a major shift happened in their romantic lives. The moment they began to focus on their own growth and transformation, the love that they desired started showing up for them in ways they were finally ready to embrace. By working on the only person you can change (YOU), and resisting the urge to focus on what’s beyond your control, my clients are finding that chasing after, hoping for or trying to strong-arm someone into being “the one,” just isn’t worth it. Rather than looking for “the one,” I help them BECOME THE ONE.
If you’re ready to get your love life together with a little help from a God-fearing, wine guzzling baddie, who’ll hold you accountable and make you laugh every step of the way - this podcast is for you! So go ahead, babes. It's time to kick off your Loubs, un-bra your boobs and clink glasses with your girl. Get ready to Fix Your Relationships.
Let's Keep In Touch! - Have a relationship question or an idea for the show? Interested in being a guest on our podcast or hiring Dr. Tiff to appear on yours? Email us at support@DrTiffanieHenry.com or visit https://DrTiffanieHenry.com for more information.
We're growing & so are you. So, we might as well grow together, Babes!! We've just launched our Facebook Community and we'd love for you to join us. Visit www.FYRCommunity.com, answer a few simple questions (so we know you're not a bot 🤖), and you're in!
Subscribe To The Newletter
Interested in connecting on a deeper level? Join the Become The ONE community: a safe-space for like-mined women, all learning how to call-in the love and life they deserve while focusing on their own growth and transformation. If you KNOW you’ve got some work to do and are ready to face your relationship missteps, you’re ready to Become The ONE. Visit https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist and sign up today.
Episodes

Wednesday Oct 01, 2025
050 | Never Good Enough? Perhaps You're With The Wrong Person!
Wednesday Oct 01, 2025
Wednesday Oct 01, 2025
If you've ever felt unworthy or "not good enough" in your relationship, I've got a WORD for you today. Actually, I have several. If you're feeling as though you don't quite measure up in your relationship or if your partner is constantly asking you to jump through hoops to no avail, I need you to do me a favor. Go to your car. Lock the doors. And turn the volume way up.
Today's podcast is all about YOU. And you, sweetie, are MORE THAN ENOUGH. Lean in as we discuss the importance of self-worth in relationships, particularly for high-achieving women. After listening, my hope is that you'll have new insights on how to identify the wrong partner and the importance of moving forward to find someone who truly appreciates you.
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Wednesday Sep 24, 2025
049 | Can't Get It All Done? Do This & CRUSH Your To-Do List!
Wednesday Sep 24, 2025
Wednesday Sep 24, 2025
If you're anything like me, you've got a to-do list that's a mile long with many items rolling over to the next day. And, the next day. And, the next. It just seems impossible to get it all done. Am I right, or am I right?
This week, I'm having a little come to Jesus with you (and myself) about the real reason we can't seem to get it all done and what we MUST do if we truly intend to handle business.
Lean in, babes, because today, I'm addressing the challenges high-achieving women face in managing their time and relationships. By episodes end, you'll have a few easy to implement, practical tips on how to better manage your to-do list and, finally feel better about asking for help. My hope is that you'll log off feeling empowered to take control of your lives and relationships, while crossing a few more things off your plate.
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Wednesday Sep 17, 2025
048 | Tackle Rejection Sensitivity with 1 Simple Strategy.
Wednesday Sep 17, 2025
Wednesday Sep 17, 2025
Are you constantly worried your partner is mad at you? Do you overthink every interaction, wondering if you did or said something wrong? Are stuck in a loop of people pleasing, while disregarding your own boundaries? Friend, you may be experiencing something called "Rejection Sensitivity."
While you may not have heard of this term before, Rejection Sensitivity isn't new. Many folks struggle with feelings of intense emotion, being called overly-sensitivity, and/or fearing that they'll be pushed away or rejected if everything is perfect. The truth is, once you understand what Rejection Sensitivity is and how it shows up for you, you'll be better able to combat it in your relationships.
In this episode of Fix Your Relationships, I'm sharing the 1 simple question that you can ask yourself to fight Rejection Sensitivity head-on. Once you know this, you'll be able to address negative emotions with confidence and embrace the needs of your relationships from a place of certainty, not overwhelm.
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Wednesday Sep 10, 2025
047 | Doing Too Much? How To Start Listening To Your Body & Ask For Help.
Wednesday Sep 10, 2025
Wednesday Sep 10, 2025
Do you struggle to ask for help? Are you stressed out from taking on too many responsibilities? Has your body started to let you know that it won't be putting up with your 💩 too much longer?
If any of this sounds familiar, you're not alone. I, too, have been guilty of doing too much. It's not uncommon for super-independent baddies like us, to take on the world and think about our own needs later. But what happens when our bodies start to break down in rebellion?
On today's episode, I share my story of learning I had an auto-immune disorder and why now, listening to my body is non-negotiable. I hope that you'll listen with an open heart and mind and share this episode with anyone in your life who's doing way too much.
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Wednesday Sep 03, 2025
046 | No More Excuses. It's Time To Invest In YOU!
Wednesday Sep 03, 2025
Wednesday Sep 03, 2025
Some of y'all are really trying it???
Imagine . . . hearing one of your homegirls complain about not having the time or the money to do something that would elevate her (scholastically, financially, health-wise) and solve a few of her more pressing challenges.
Now imagine . . . that this same friend, just dropped a huge chunk of change to see her favorite artist in concert. While there is no judgement here, I am giving my girl the side-eye.
In today's episode, I wanted to call out those of us who are happy to pour our money, our time and talent into others but not offering ourselves the same attention. It's time to let go of the excuses and stop putting things off. If you can invest in others, you can (and should) invest in yourselves as well.
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Wednesday Aug 27, 2025
045 | Looking for "The One?" The Real Reasons You Haven't Found Your Person, YET!
Wednesday Aug 27, 2025
Wednesday Aug 27, 2025
Want to find "The ONE," but don't know what you're doing wrong?
Finding your person is so much simpler than you think. Especially when you know the real reasons its been so difficult. In today's episode, we'll walk through the 6 reasons you haven't found The One and what you can do TODAY to get one step closer to having the love of your life.
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READY TO WORK? Relationships are hard. But you don't have to navigate them alone. I have a few slots for 1:1 VIP Relationship Coaching Intensives this month and I'd love to help you tackle whatever you might be struggling with. If interested, email me at support@drtiffaniehenry.com to schedule a 15-minute Coffee Chat. From there, we'll determine if Relationship Coaching is right for you and if so, get you scheduled for your first session.
JOIN OUR COMMUNITY: If you're ready to "double-down" on YOU and do the work to improve your relationships, sign-up for the Become The ONE community today and join our supportive community of like-minded women, all on a mission to embrace the love and life they deserve. Tap here to join, or copy/paste the following url into your browser: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/email

Wednesday Aug 20, 2025
044 | Pushing Love Away? 5 Ways We Sabotage Relationships
Wednesday Aug 20, 2025
Wednesday Aug 20, 2025
Do you push your romantic partners away, even when you really want them close? Are you guilty of holding back your feelings, but are resentful of your partner for not reading your mind? If so, you may be sabotaging your relationship.
In today's episode, we'll explore the 5 ways in which you may be sabotaging your relationship. Understanding the "why" is the necessary first step of improve present and future relationships.
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READY TO WORK? Relationships are hard. But you don't have to navigate them alone. I have a few slots for 1:1 VIP Relationship Coaching Intensives this month and I'd love to help you tackle whatever you might be struggling with. If interested, email me at support@drtiffaniehenry.com to schedule a 15-minute Coffee Chat. From there, we'll determine if Relationship Coaching is right for you and if so, get you scheduled for your first session.
JOIN OUR COMMUNITY: If you're ready to "double-down" on YOU and do the work to improve your relationships, sign-up for the Become The ONE community today and join our supportive community of like-minded women, all on a mission to embrace the love and life they deserve. Tap here to join, or copy/paste the following url into your browser: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/email

Wednesday Aug 13, 2025
043 | 9 Reasons We Stay In Dead-End Relationships
Wednesday Aug 13, 2025
Wednesday Aug 13, 2025
Are you in a relationship that's been over for some time, but you just can't bring yourself to leave? Have you ever wondered why you stay in romantic relationships when it's crystal clear they're not going anywhere? Well it's time you got some answers, sis.
In today's episode, we'll explore the 9 reasons we stay in dead-end relationships. By episode's end, my hope is that you'll have a better understanding of your patterns and how you may have more power in getting yourself "unstuck" than you think.
WANT MORE from Dr. Tiff?
READY TO WORK? Relationships are hard. But you don't have to navigate them alone. I have a few slots for 1:1 VIP Relationship Coaching Intensives this month and I'd love to help you tackle whatever you might be struggling with. If interested, email me at support@drtiffaniehenry.com to schedule a 15-minute Coffee Chat. From there, we'll determine if Relationship Coaching is right for you and if so, get you scheduled for your first session.
JOIN OUR COMMUNITY: If you're ready to "double-down" on YOU and do the work to improve your relationships, sign-up for the Become The ONE community today and join our supportive community of like-minded women, all on a mission to embrace the love and life they deserve. Tap here to join, or copy/paste the following url into your browser: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/email

Wednesday Aug 06, 2025
042 | The Real Reason Your Sexual Desire Is Low & What You Can Do To Fix It
Wednesday Aug 06, 2025
Wednesday Aug 06, 2025
Understanding sexual desire is crucial for intimate relationships; especially, when our libido is low. In this episode of Fix Your Relationships, Dr. Tiff delves into the complexities of sexual desire, particularly focusing on the causes of low sexual desire among women. If after listening to this episode, you find that you, or someone you love, may be struggling with low sexual desire, you are encourage to seek the help of a medical or mental health professional to explore the best course of treatment.
WANT MORE from Dr. Tiff?
READY TO WORK? Relationships are hard. But you don't have to navigate them alone. I have a few slots for 1:1 VIP Relationship Coaching Intensives this month and I'd love to help you tackle whatever you might be struggling with. If interested, email me at support@drtiffaniehenry.com to schedule a 15-minute Coffee Chat. From there, we'll determine if Relationship Coaching is right for you and if so, get you scheduled for your first session.
JOIN OUR COMMUNITY: If you're ready to "double-down" on YOU and do the work to improve your relationships, sign-up for the Become The ONE community today and join our supportive community of like-minded women, all on a mission to embrace the love and life they deserve. Tap here to join, or copy/paste the following url into your browser: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/email

Wednesday Jul 30, 2025
041 | Looking For "The One?" Stop Doing THIS!
Wednesday Jul 30, 2025
Wednesday Jul 30, 2025
Many women struggle to find their person, their ideal partner, THE ONE. The good news is, you're not alone. The not so good news is, you may need to make some serious, dare I say drastic, changes in order to find the love of your life.
In this episode of Fix Your Relationship, Dr. Tiff discusses the importance of self-work in finding and maintaining healthy romantic relationships. She emphasizes what you may need to start and stop doing in order to improve your chances of finding the right partner.
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WATCH DR. TIFF As promised, here's the link to one of my very first television appearances, Vh1's What Chili Wants, where we discuss her list and why it's not working for her.
READY TO WORK? Relationships are hard. But you don't have to navigate them alone. I have a few slots for 1:1 VIP Relationship Coaching Intensives this month and I'd love to help you tackle whatever you might be struggling with. If interested, email me at support@drtiffaniehenry.com to schedule a 15-minute Coffee Chat. From there, we'll determine if Relationship Coaching is right for you and if so, get you scheduled for your first session.
JOIN OUR COMMUNITY: If you're ready to "double-down" on YOU and do the work to improve your relationships, sign-up for the Become The ONE community today and join our supportive community of like-minded women, all on a mission to embrace the love and life they deserve. Tap here to join, or copy/paste the following url into your browser: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/email







